Hey you,
So I’ve actually been wanting to share this because I think alot of people wonder about it even if they sometimes die wondering but now here’s the thing, to what extent should one actually share information on such? I just hope I don’t share “too much” for you to handle.
Before I fell pregnant I wondered how people(couples) actually have sex when they are pregnant it has always just been so awkward to imagine and now I actually got to experience it. You find when you experience something that it’s just not as weird or bad as you thought it would be.
First trimester, as I probably mentioned in my first post(you can go back and read it if you haven’t) I was just always tired and moody so sex was the last thing on my mind in fact I wanted none of that heck, I didn’t even think of it. Which was quite a problem for my partner because this was the one time where he got excited for me(apparently, they enjoy it more during this time everything is just nice and warm) but he just had to understand because I just wasn’t up for it. All I wanted was to sleep and this was until the second trimester.
In the second trimester till the end I was the problematic one, I was constantly wanting to enjoy and explore him, you’d swear I had taken a blue pill to last me a whole 5months. It’s different of course with every woman by we can’t pretend that it’s not something that is not experienced, some women do not want a man near them throughout the pregnancy, sex just irritates them.
As much as I was a cat constantly sinking my claws into my boyfriend(which he of course wasn’t complaining about) my belly started to grow which was now beginning to restrict my movement and with the belly being bigger it meant I was heavier(biggest spoiler) but hey I had no intentions of giving up. And so I soldiered on right till the end.
Being pregnant doesn’t mean you are sick and there’s no such thing as your partner “poking your baby” so if everything is A okay in terms of the health of your pregnancy nothing should stop you from receiving pleasure from your bae. However certain styles are impossible to do once the belly has grown so it’s all about finding what works for you and making the best of it. Also, in the last stages of your pregnancy it is possible with some women that they will spot after sex because of the position they were in , so don’t pressurise yourself into dong what you used to create before you were pregnant because the baby will be born and you can go back to being as feisty as you want.
I’d love to hear what you’ve thought or imagined sex to be like for a pregnant woman. If you’ve been there where you those women who just wanted nothing to do with sex or where you more like me?
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